2018, Dating, Inspiration, My Journey, self discovery, self improvement, Self-Help

Can You Know Who You Were Born To Be?

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Don’t Be Who You Think You’re Supposed To Be Until You Figure Out Who You Were Born To Be. Remember: You can’t be to others what you are not first to yourself.

Can you know who you were born to be? YES! But you have to spend enough time with yourself to figure it out.

You have to love yourself enough; you have to give yourself permission to make life about you long enough, to figure out who you are.

I can be a lot of things to my family and to my world by working a job, but I can be a whole lot more to them by fulfilling my destiny.

Half-full People Make Withdrawals Not Deposits.

If you’re cup is half full and mine is half full when we get together one of us are going to be full but the other is going to be left empty. The key is to be full all the time. That kind of full requires you to be fulfilled. You can only be half (if even that much) to others when you are not completely fulfilled yourself.

Take A Break. Date Yourself.

Take a break. Date Yourself. Get to know yourself again – what you like, what you don’t like, who you wanna be when you grow up (regardless of your age).

Keep dating yourself until you finally get a sense, or renewed sense, of who you are. Until you find your reason for living again. And then ‘come back’ and start living out that reason! You will find the world’s view of you will change when your view of yourself changes.

The more purpose you have when you wake up, the more you will want to wake up.

The more purpose and passion you have when you wake up, the more you will look forward to waking up. AND, the more other people will want to be around you.

You can still be a work in progress and motivate and inspire others. You can be a work in progress, but a work in progress with passion, with an inspired sense of direction instead of desperation, and you can change the world while you’re still changing yourself! It’s your passion that’s contagious! 

Don’t be who you think you’re supposed to be until you figure out who you were born to be. Can you know who you were born to be? YES! But you have to spend enough time yourself to figure that out. Ditch the dating scene for awhile and date yourself!

Give Yourself Permission

Go ahead. Give yourself permission to make life about you, while you still have enough life in front of you to do something about it.

You’re not letting anyone else down by building yourself up.

Your family, your community, your world doesn’t need the ‘just get by’ you, the ‘half-full’ you, they need the ALL of you. And you can’t give them your all when you are running on empty.

Don’t Be Who You Think You’re Supposed To Be Until You Figure Out Who You Were Born To Be. Remember: You can’t be to others what you are not first to yourself.

2017, My Journey, self improvement, Self-Help

Wednesday’s Word: Making Someone Else Out To Be Wrong Doesn’t Make You Right.

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Making someone else out to be wrong doesn’t make you right. Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. Be right or wrong all by yourself.

Reaching our ultimate self includes taking full and complete responsibility for our lives. Immaturity blames, finds reasons, other than him or herself, for why life isn’t working out. Be right or wrong all by yourself. Let the buck stop with you!

There’s an old hymn that says, “just as I am without one plea.” A plea is a request made in an urgent emotional manner. Resist the urge to make what happens to you someone else’s fault.

Take full and complete responsibility for your life. Making someone else out to be wrong doesn’t make you right.

~ Jeff Crume

#EmpoweredToWin

2017, Life Lessons, My Journey, Self-Help

The Most Overlooked Method To Building Self Worth

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The key 🗝️  to self worth is self talk. To make sure you are becoming who you want to be, you must tell yourself over and over every day who you are. One simple way to do this is to make your mantra your password.

I am beautiful, I am wealthy, I am awesome.”

Whatever statement best describes the person you know you were created to be, make it your password. While there is not much data on how many times we actually type our password in a day, we could all agree that we type our password(s) a lot!

Think about it. What better way to program yourself for success.

Each time you enter your password, you will not only be “unlocking” your device, but at the same time, unlocking the recesses of your mind to help you be a better, more confident, you!

Make your mantra your password. It’s the most overlooked method to building your self worth.