2018, Inspiration, Life Lessons, My Journey

Don’t Be Ashamed Of Your Struggle, It’s Taking You Somewhere


Don’t Be Ashamed Of Your Struggle

Everyone struggles. It doesn’t matter who you are or what your current status is in life, everyone struggles with something. Struggle is not an indication of worth or ability; it’s a sign of active engagement toward a worthwhile cause.

Struggle comes standard issue with life. No one gets out of life alive, and no one accomplishes their destiny or achieves their dream without struggle.

Struggle isn’t a reflection of what you don’t have; it’s a reflection of your determination to get what’s yours at all cost. Struggle is the evidence that you’re trying.

To be ashamed of your struggle is to self sabotage your own success. Shame is a self imposed. Stop it. Don’t allow societal pressure to dictate your self worth. Don’t allow struggle to try and convince you you’re not capable, or it will never happen for you.

Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself

1. Am I giving it my all?
2. Is this the best I can do?

If the answer is “YES,” welcome to the club. You made it. Entrance fee paid! Keep Pushing you’re almost there!

If your answer is “NO,” stop blaming everyone else. Don’t play the victim; it’s not becoming. Fess up to laziness, lack of discipline, wrong thinking, overeating, whining, complaining; whatever your case may be. Correct it. Rise above it. And get on with it!

Correct it. Rise above it. And get on with it!

Don’t spend one more second in what you don’t want. Don’t waste anymore energy on justifying ‘what,’ or ‘why,’ just implement the necessary change and move on!

Don’t be ashamed of your struggle. To struggle is to be human. But make sure you do something with yours. Don’t struggle just to struggle; just for the story. Turn your struggle into success, into an accomplishment that can inspire others.

Make something happen out this mess you find yourself in. It’s the only way to shut your critic(s) up. It’s the only way to finally prove to yourself “I got this!”

2018, Life Lessons, My Journey

Am I Being Held Back? Or Am I Afraid To Move Forward?

Am I being “called back” or am I afraid to move forward_ (1)

The most difficult decision you will make in your life is the decision to move forward.

Especially when there is still doubt about whether you should leave, or have left, the place you’re in, we’re in, to begin with.

Allegiance Is Keeping You Stuck.

How long will you be between two opinions? I’ve seen people at the end of their life still stuck. Sure they had a business, a family; they were able to cross a few finish lines, put a few trophies in their case, but they never knew if they were running the right race — or better said, their race.

You must be certain the race you’re running is yours; of your own volition. Every other effort will always disappoint.

The Apostle Paul in the Christian Bible said, “I’ve ran MY race, I’ve finished MY course, and NOW there is laid up for me a crown.”

Your Race. Your Course. Your Crown. It’s the only way to live and die completely fulfilled!

2018, Destiny, Life, My Journey, purpose

Just Because It Isn’t Working Doesn’t Mean It’s Not Meant To Work

Destiny Quote

“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose.”

Have you ever found yourself at odds with a person you believed was a divine connection? Have you ever struggled to find your place in a job or a business that you knew was meant for you?

Even the best laid plans, divine connections, and opportunities of a life time, can fail outside of “Timing,” “Synchronicity,” if you please.

Just because “it” isn’t working, doesn’t mean it’s not meant to work.

Before you throw away what you’ve been praying your entire life for, consider that it may be ‘right;’ it just may not be the right time.

“Destiny is the deliberate fulfillment of purpose at the divinely appointed time.” – Jeff Crume

Trust the reason that brought you to this place, to this person, to this opportunity, in the first place. Don’t fall into the trap of indifference and miss the purpose of destiny.

You were meant to meet; you just have to get through what you don’t like about each other to discover what brought you together to begin with.